Do LaDies NeEd A ShOe CaBINet In ThEir OfFiCe aS WeLL?

Am just previewing that how and what shoes i've possessed. It was so frustrated to think where are all my shoes! Then, i realised some of my shoes were stored under my working desk : 'this is bad' .....oh, no! >_<

I think its better that a shoe cabinet to be placed here...! How convenient it can be? Working place need a 'SHOWING' cabinet (am implying to a different meaning here)? What really happened to our own 'private life' where we need to handle our own stuffs 'outside' the working place or in other words, DO NOT bring personal matters into workplaces. In other words, am not doing a good job in handling my own stuff. =( I guess my life now is rather based on all of the working subjects or nor its all about it..what a 'TIRED' life am having now...Same implies to a shoe cabinet, it's designed to stall shoes or ...?

It's Been A While...Missing Part of Me?

Lately, i've been so lazy to do anything, anything at all...including : updating my blog!

I will think.. what a life am having now!

What the heck is going on with me??

I've no motivation, no energy, no plans and no mood to do a single thing...

Until last week, its been a hectic week for me.

At a moment, am so happy, then a moment later, am so weak in mind and heart.

My chart of emotions can be very high at the beginning, then so low in the end!

I asked myself :

'Is it because it is almost the end of the year? i'm so worry that am getting 'outdated' in terms of trends, minds, behaviour or etc? or is it because i've no plans for my future at all?'

Frankly, i had never concern of me no future plans at all. As long as am happy and know what am doing rite now, its worth to be live with! Just live your life less perfect, it will dismiss some of the burdens in mind physically and mentally..

I pray everytime and everyday to GOD please help my friends whom suffered the worst time she or he is going through now, i prayed for a happy life to my family and all the human being in this world...then, it still didnt get rid of my concerns at all...something missing may be?

'Special' Dedication'

This 'special' message was specially made to a dear friend of mine.

A dear friend whom not only to me, but to all the people around us.

It is a sad news to be confront, but anyway, it can be a 'right' decision to be made.

You had gone through so many other sad things in your life..with family or with friends. Fortunately, we all still can see, hear, taste and feel.

Whats better than this?

We can still see the people we loved, and all the beautiful moments we longed for.....

We can still hear the voices and sounds of the world around us....

We can still taste the most sour, bitter and sweet or delicous foods of all!

and lastly,

We can still feel the best and worst of times !

THATS LIFE!

We pray for the soonest recover you can get...and remember..you are not alone.

WE ALL will be there for you, no matter how, what, where and when....

Be strong...not for yourself, but for the people around you!

かんばで !

I cried when i read this wonderful experience of a father and a mother. Would like to share with all of you...

WONDERFUL STORY should be shared with WONDERFUL PEOPLE like you!

At a fundraising dinner for a schoolthat serves learning disabled children,the father of one of the students delivered a speech that would never beforgotten by all who attended. After extolling the schooland its dedicated staff, he offered a question:

"When not interfered with by outside influences, everything nature does is done with perfection. Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other children do. He cannot understand things as other children do. Where is the natural order of things in my son?"

The audience was stilled by the query.

The father continued. "I believe,that when a child like Shay, physically and mentally handicapped comes into the world, an opportunity to realize true human nature presents itself, and it comes, in the way other people treat that child.

"Then he told the following story:

Shay and his father had walked past a park where some boys Shay knew were playing baseball. Shay asked,"Do you think they'll let me play?"Shay's father knew that most of the boys would not want someone like Shay on their team, but the father also understood that if his son were allowed to play, it would give him a much-needed sense of belonging and some confidence to be accepted by others in spite of his handicaps.

Shay's father approached one ofthe boys on the field and asked if Shay could play, not expecting much. The boy looked around for guidance and said,"We're losing by six runs and the game is in the eighth inning. I guess he can be on our team and we'lltry to put him in to bat in the ninth inning."

Shay struggled over to the team's bench put on a team shirt with a broad smile and his Father had a small tear in his eye and warmth in his heart. Theboys saw the father's joy at his son being accepted. In the bottom of the eighth inning, Shay's team scored afew runs but was still behind by three. In the top of the ninth inning, Shay put on a glove and played in the rightfield. Even though no hits came his way, he was obviously ecstatic just to be in the game and on the field, grinning from ear to ear as his father waved to him from the stands.In the bottom of the ninth inning, Shay's team scored again. Now, with two outs and the bases loaded, the potential winning run was on base and Shay was scheduled tobe next at bat.

At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their chance to win the game? Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat. Everyone knew that ahit was all but impossible 'cause Shay didn't even know how to hold the bat properly, much less connect withthe ball.

However, as Shay stepped up to the plate, the pitcher, recognizing the other team putting winning aside for this moment in Shay's life, moved in afew steps to lob the ball in softly so Shay could at leastbe able to make contact. The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed. The pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss the ball softly towards Shay. As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow groundball right back to the pitcher.

The game would now be over, but thep itcher picked up the soft grounder and could have easily thrown the ball to the first baseman. Shay would have been out and that would have been the end of the game.

Instead, the pitcher threw the ball right over the head of the first baseman, out of reach of all team mates. Everyone from the stands and both teams started yelling, "Shay, run to first! Run to first!" Never in his life had Shay ever ran that farbut made it to first base. He scampered down the baseline,wide-eyed and startled.

Everyone yelled, "Run to second,run to second!"

Catching his breath, Shay awkwardly ran towards second, gleaming and struggling to make it to second base. By the time Shay rounded towards second base,the right fielder had the ball, the smallest guy on theirteam, who had a chance to be the hero for his team for the first time. He could have thrown the ball to the second-baseman for the tag, but he understood the pitcher's intentions and he too intentionally threw the ball high and far over the third-baseman's head. Shay ran toward third base deliriously as the runners ahead ofhim circled the bases toward home.

All were screaming, "Shay, Shay,Shay, all the Way Shay"

Shay reached third base, the opposing short stop ran to help him and turned him in the direction of third base, and shouted, "Run to third! Shay, run tothird" As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams and those watching were on their feet were screaming,"Shay, run home! Shay ran to home, stepped on theplate, and was cheered as the hero who hit the "grandslam" and won the game for his team.

That day, said the father softly withtears now rolling down his face, the boys from both teams helped bring a piece of true love and humanity into this world.

Shay didn't make it to another summer and died that winter, having never forgotten being the hero and making his Father so happy and coming home and seeing his Mother tearfully embrace her little hero of theday!

Would There Be Anymore 'Safe' Foods for Us?

A friend of mine sent this warning to me and i think it's perfect to share with all via here. Please take your time to read and be cautious when choosing your food!

Industrially farmed in Vietnam along the Mekong River , Pangas or whatever they're calling it, has only been recently introduced to the French market. However, in a very short amount of time, it has grown in popularity in France . The French are slurping up Pangas like it's their last meal of soup noodles. They are very, very affordable (cheap), are sold in filets with no bones and they have a neutral (bland) flavor and texture; many would compare it to cod and sole, only much cheaper. But as tasty as some people may find it, there's, in fact, something hugely unsavory about it. I hope the information provided here will serve as very important information for you and your future choices. Here's why I think it is better left in the shops (and not on your dinner plates):

Pangas are teeming with high levels of poisons and bacteria. ( industrial effluents, arsenic, and toxic and hazardous by-products of the growing industrial sector, polychlorinated biphenyls (PCBs), DDT and its metabolites (DDTs), metal contaminants, chlordane-related compounds (CHLs), hexachlorocyclohexane isomers (HCHs), and hexachlorobenzene (HCB) ). The reasons are that the Mekong River is one of the most polluted rivers on the planet and this is where pangas are farmed and industries along the river dump chemicals and industrial waste directly into it.

To Note: a friend lab tests these fish and tells us to avoid eating them due to high amounts of contamination. Regardless of the reports and recommendations against selling them, the supermarkets still sell them to the general public knowing they are contaminated.2. They freeze Pangas in contaminated river water.

Pangas are not environmentally sustainable, a most unsustainable food you could possibly eat - 'Buy local' means creating the least amount of environmental harm as possible. This is the very opposite end of the spectrum of sustainable consumerism. Pangas are raised in Vietnam . Pangas are fed food that comes from Peru ( more on that below ), their hormones ( which are injected into the female Pangas ) come from China .

( More about that below ) and finally, they are transported from Vietnam to France . That's not just a giant carbon foot print, that's a carbon continent of a foot print.

There's nothing natural about Pangas - They're fed dead fish remnants and bones, dried and ground into a flour, from South America , manioc ( cassava ) and residue from soy and grains. This kind of nourishment doesn't even remotely resemble what they eat in nature. But what it does resemble is the method of feeding mad cows ( cows were fed cows, remember? ). What they feed pangas is completely unregulated so there are most likely other dangerous substances and hormones thrown into the mix. The pangas grow at a speed light ( practically! ) : 4 times faster than in nature¡Kso it makes you wonder what exactly is in their food? Your guess is as good as mine.

Pangas are Injected with Hormones Derived from Urine - I don't know how someone came up with this one out but they've discovered that if they inject female Pangas with hormones made from the dehydrated urine of pregnant women, the female Pangas grow much quicker and produce eggs faster (one Panga can lay approximately 500,000 eggs at one time). Essentially, they're injecting fish with hormones ( they come all of the way from a pharmaceutical company in China) to speed up the process of growth and reproduction. That isn't good. Some of you might not mind eating fish injected with dehydrated pee, so if you don't, good for you, but just consider the rest of the reasons to NOT eat it.

You get what you pay for - and then some. Don't be lured in by insanely cheap price of Pangas. Is it worth risking your health and the health of your family?

Buying Pangas supports unscrupulous, greedy evil corporations and food conglomerates that don't care about the health and well-being of human beings. They only are concerned about selling as many pangas as possible to unsuspecting consumers. These corporations only care about selling and making more money at whatever cost to the public.

Pangas will make you sick - If ( for reasons in #1 above ) you don't get immediately ill with vomiting, diarrhea and effects from severe food poisoning, congratulations, you have an iron stomach! But you're still ingesting POISON not poisson.Final important note: Because of the prodigious amount of availability of Pangas, be warned that they will certainly find their way into other foods: surimi ( those pressed fish things, imitation crab sticks ), fish sticks, fish terrines, and probably in some pet foods. (Warn your dogs and cats and hamsters and gerbils and even your pet fish! )

So, when you do your next round of shopping of frozen fish,or eating out at cafes / food stalls by choosing fish-&-chips, think twice !!You have been warned !!!